Meet Caroline...
This is Caroline.
Two weeks ago, she came into practice and immediately I could tell that something was “off”. She wasn’t her usual cheerful self. And when I say cheerful, I mean singing and skipping - that kind of cheerful self.
5 minutes into practice she came over to me and said she was stressed. Then she broke down.
After a few minutes, we were able to discuss the workload that she was under at school in addition to her other activities.
She had deadlines. A lot of them. And spending time at gym in practice meant she would be up until midnight AGAIN, just trying to keep her head above water.
The stress was pouring out from her, in the form of fear, frustration, and tears.
We talked.
We breathed.
We decided that nothing could be compromised on - it all had to be done.
So what she needed was a plan. A way to decide. To prioritize.
Just like she does in practice. She keeps a journal. She lists every skill, drill and routine that she does every practice.
Now she was going to do that for her whole week.
So we got her journal, and pulled out a back page.
She blocked out her daily schedule, and prioritized her tasks.
Once it was all down on paper she said she felt better. A lot better. Especially because, she said, she wouldn’t forget anything this way.
We agreed that it was a good plan, and also agreed that it could be changed as needed.
She returned to practice and had a good day.
I checked in with her the next day and asked if she had stuck with the plan.
She said that she had. And that she was already ahead of schedule because she could give her attention to one thing at a time, rather than feeling stressed about everything at once.
By the end of that week, she was nearly a week ahead in every subject at school.
And she was able to go to bed around 10 instead of midnight. She was sleeping better. She woke up rested, and excited for the day.
She feels like a new girl.
Caroline, this is how we do everything. Not just gymnastics. You’re going to make a lot of people proud. Not just me.
Go get ‘em, girl!